Find out about your core self and what you want in a partner. 3 question game.

Think of this as a three question game. Created by relation phycology experts to creatively talk to you sub conscious. We are not often aware that we associate things with other things.

When it comes to psychoanalysis, we can use that to our advantage. We can use it for the purpose of self-awareness. Consider this a get to know you game.

You may think this game is just a ‘fun little game’, but people including myself actually believe in this subconscious work so much that they have ended dates based on this game. I read a reply from a lady that stated “I was once on a date where a guy told me that his favorite animal was a butterfly because it was always beautiful, only came around when it was wanted (is never annoying) and is silent. Just think about my personality… Match made in heaven right?"

You may think this game is just a ‘fun little game’, but people including myself actually believe in this subconscious work so much that they have ended dates based on this game. I read a reply from a lasy that stated “i was once on a date where a guy told me that his favourite animal was a butterfly because it was always beautiful, only came around when it was wanted (is never annoying) and is silent. Just think about my personality… Match made in heaven right?" When it comes to psychoanalysis, we can use that to our advantage.

We can use it for the purpose of self-awareness and to get to know the people we meet. Consider this a get to know you game.

ASK YOURSELF OR ANOTHER:

1. Their favorite Color and three deep reasons why.

2. Their favorite Animal and three deep reasons why.

3. Their favorite Form or Body of Water and three deep reasons why. (A form of water is something like snow or ice or rain where as a body of water could be something like the Pacific Ocean or a birdbath or a hot tub or a waterfall.)

When answering these questions, try to deep and thoughtful as possible. For example, “I like blue because it is the color of the ocean” is not a deep answer. If they give you that answer, you have to dig deeper by asking something like “what does the ocean mean to you?” An answer like, “blue is infinite” is an example of a deep answer.

Do this with every question, But the secret is that every answer given is really about something else. Snazzy right!

· The choice of the favorite color actually represents the truth about how they see themselves, how they view their own personality.

· The choice of the favorite animal is the truth about what they want in an ideal life partner.

· The choice of the favorite form or body of water is the truth about their view of their own sexuality and their attitude towards sex and some might even argue, towards life itself.

When your doing this on someone else While you are watching them answer, you are not only taking note of what they say, but also how they say it. All of what they do tells you something. For example, if they really struggle with this exercise, it is safe to say that you are talking to a person who is not very introspective. If someone struggles to come up with a favorite color, they may struggle with knowing who they are or they may hate the feeling of being ‘tied down’ to being one way or another.

Obviously, this exercise is designed to get people to expose aspects of themselves that they may not consciously be aware of about themselves. I have to tell you how the game is played for the sake of the article, but you get the purest answers when people have no idea what game they are actually playing with you. If they do know, you run the risk of them altering their answers so as to give you answers that they want to give you instead of the ‘real’ answers coming deep from their subconscious mind. So if you’re playing this game for the first time, forget the game you are playing and forget yourself and literally think only about the color or animal or form/body of water and why you like that thing.

Love and Light,

Maddi x